If you read the column last time then
you met DD.
She was willing to allow us a slight glimpse
into her swinging, open relationship life. But I wanted
to hear more about it from the standpoint of a man,
namely Franklin, her
man.
Ladies let me set the scene for
you.
Frank D stands 6’2" with skin the color of
Mocha. His lips look
kissable and inviting. He is not a
gym rat but he’s also not a couch potato. Strong arms
with whiter than white teeth and he knows how to
smile.
Did I mention he smells good? But now, by
the same token, DD aint slippin either. She has hottie
qualities.
That’s all I got for you, hottie
qualities.
The two together make one hot couple that
doesn’t need any skanks, to turn up their fire. So why
do they do it?
We got DD’s story, lets get Frank
D’s.
DJ:
Franklin D, I know you
are open for conversation on the topic of sex and
relationship.
So I ask you what is it like to have a wanting
for more than one set of legs in bed with
you.
FD: Dana J, you
just go there don’t you? (Smile) Let me say
that it is more than my needs being met because my
mate has the same desire. See it is
desire wrapped in satisfaction and greed.
DJ: Damn, I like
the pure way you just put it out there. Desire, Greed
and Satisfaction…hummm ok. Can you explain each
quality?
FD: Sex is derived
from a desire or a need to satisfy a deep inner need,
which is a natural thing. Right? I mean we all
have a form of sexual desire and it all comes from
within, the deeper the better (he smirks). That makes the
desire true.
Now if you couple that with greed then that is
the dash in the recipe a lot of people have in their
relationship.
DJ: Frank D you
say we all have greed in our relationship but I don’t
recall having greed.
FD: If you don’t
recall the greed in yours that could be good and it
could be bad.
Greed leads to the need of more and more desire
of sexual satisfaction. Unfortunately, everybody KAINT hang. And when you
KAINT HANG it doesn’t
lessen your partners desires to scratch that itch. So
now what?
DJ: Now that itch
gets scratched somehow.
FD: RIGHT! And a good
partner is concerned and will take the necessary steps
to be a part of the scratching. Either the
partner scratches it all the time, or they get
help.
DJ: Professional
help!!
FD: No... see DJ
that is where people take the wrong turn. Thinking that
your partner is trippin and wishin-a-wigga would step
out there is the reason for cheating in
relationships.
Don’t be a statistic. When people
desire chocolate they will get it and it is best to
indulge them and acknowledge their desire for it and
let them have a little. Because, trust
me DJ when you are not around and the desire for
chocolate arises, your mate is going to eat the hell
out of that chocolate. Desire is pure. People can’t
pick their poison, so you work with them. Hell... you do
what you have to do to keep it fresh, get new draws,
get viagra, stimulants or outside help. Just Do
It!
DJ:
Is that where we are going Frank D? I don’t like
those choices.
None of them are self-serving for me or for
partner number one and for those of us who are selfish
(not me), I cannot take that extra step outside of the
norm for him.
See I just think those are excuses that someone
has developed to allow all the vices of the world to
divide the foundation of life. Which to me is
the beginning of life itself, The Foundation? I pass no
judgment. I just don’t see that for me and that cool
right Frank D? Live and
Let Live.
Part II Coming Next
Week
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